Again, I cannot stress enough to you the importance of social networking. Twitter has given me the opportunity to come across people who I may have not met otherwise in person. During my visit to Chicago, I have met up with many friends who I met through the social network. If you have been a reader of my blog, then you know this has been a recurring theme as I travel and visit different places—I am always able to meet up with people in my Twitter timeline, and I absolutely love it.
On Sunday, I met up with my good friend Curvatude and Diva Living with AIDS activist, Rae Lewis Thornton. If you are unfamiliar with Rae, she first graced the cover of Essence magazine in 1994 and has been living with AIDS since 1994. She is an Emmy award winning woman who is a motivational speaker and AIDS educator, who worked on several political campaigns previously for devoting her life’s work to the disease. Rae also has a very popular blog called Diva Living with AIDS and has a prominent Twitter account. I tweeted that I was in Chicago and she invited me to meet for cupcakes and tea (we also added lunch) and Curvatude, who I adore, was able to join us.
I can tell you that Rae’s personality is just like how she is online—what you see is what you get. Her no holds barred approach to living with AIDS and how it is affecting her life is commendable. She shared a lot of with us about how her disease impedes her health and her lifestyle BUT what’s rare about Rae is she doesn’t play victim—she is devoted to help others avoid the AIDS sentence by telling her story and teaching others about safe sex.
My friend Curvatude is also simply amazing. She is a fashion/lifestyle blogger and keeps it real—I think that is what I like about her the most. Her personality is one of a kind and she is oh so fabulous.
What can I say? It was 4 hours of sisterhood, sharing, teaching, laughing, and bonding. I promise you we were so loud at times that I thought we were going to get kicked out of Starbucks, where we sat and at our More Cupcakes while sipping tea and telling stories. It was more than amazing—it was the power of connecting on a social level to the sisterhood level, and let me tell you, I had a fabulous time.
Here are a few pictures of our 4 hour outing that culminated in a bond that I hope will never be broken. The power of sisterhood along with cupcakes is a great way to cement a friendship, I’d say!
“Sisters are doing it for themselves,” Rae L. Thornton, me, Curvatude
Me looking at Curvatude like “What’chu talking ’bout, Willis?”
Diva Living with AIDS, Rae L. Thornton and Curvatude
Follow Curvatude and Rae on Twitter!
Goody says
lol…
girl, i cant believe you only ate half of that cupcake i devoured both of mine.
and aint twitter the ish? i too have met so many incredible people because of it who have seriously become such good friends.
it was really great spending time with you this weekend and you are so on point about Rae.
she is without a doubt an inspiration and i too adore her in your face nothing but real life!
safe travels home and see ya next time!
The Cubicle Chick says
@Curvatude, thank you Goody! You were a wonderful hostess this weekend. Hopefully, I will be seeing you soon. 🙂
Monica says
Awwww!!!! This is what social networking is supposed to do! Connect and bring people closer together!!! (I would have eaten two or three cupcakes, though!) When are you coming to California?
The Cubicle Chick says
@Monica–I will be in LA in July 🙂
Monica says
Well, make sure you hit me up!!! I see tapas in our future!!!!
DNLee says
So jealous…great company and cupcakes…so that’s what you were up to in Chicago….
Kerissa says
Love Mrs. Rae! You look great chic and it looks like the time together was filled with the start of a friendship that won’t take years to develop into something strong and lasting. I need to meet some folks on my timeline….I’ll refrain from elaborating here, lolol 🙂